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October 6: The Power and Control Wheel
Domestic violence is characterized by the pattern of actions an individual uses to intentionally control and dominate their partner. That is why the words “power and control” are in the center of this wheel. The aggressor in these actions systematically uses threats, intimidation, coercion, isolation and other forms of abuse to exert control over and instill fear in their partner. Those behaviors are the spokes of the wheel. Physical and sexual violence sustains the pattern — and that violence is the tire on the outside of the wheel.
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October 13: The Cycle of Domestic Violence
A three-stage pattern is found in domestic violence that characterizes many relationships involving abuse.
- Tension-building: insults, screams, constant criticism, coercion, anger and threats.
- Acute Explosion of Violence: physical and sexual attacks such as shoving, slapping, beating, and/or forced intercourse.
- Honeymoon: apologies, blaming the victim, promises to change and giving gifts.
At the heart of the cycle is denial, which prolongs the cycle because it prevents the victim from seeking help, leaving the partner, or even recognizing the pattern for what it is.
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The next meeting of our Domestic Violence Outreach Committee will be at 7 p.m. Wednesday, October 16 in the Pine Room at St. Benedict Rectory, 2215 W. Irving Park Rd.
October 20: Domestic Violence Statistics
Download our information flyer of 2019 U.S. Domestic Violence statistics from the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
October 27: The Story of Domestic Violence… And Our Response as Catholics
When I Call For Help: A Pastoral Response to Domestic Violence (statement of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops)