BLUE & GREEN Breakout Group
FRUITS TO DISCUSS:
Joy * Kindness * Faithfulness * Generosity
JOY
which lasts through any trials
How do you express joy in the Lord?
Saint Teresa of Avila: Teresa once wrote, “God, deliver me from sullen saints!” She believed that great joy of the heart is visible in all who truly serve God. She even joked with God. Once when she was crossing the street, a passing cart splashed mud on her white robes. Teresa looked up to heaven with a smile and said, “Lord, if this is how you treat your friends, it is no wonder you have so few.”
GivesMeHope.com: “Today, I learned that my ten-year-old brother has cancer. After I cried for a while, he looked at me and said, ‘Why are you crying? It’s just another test from God. And we will surely pass with flying colors.’ My little brother’s optimism gives me hope.”
KINDNESS
Selfless acts of compassion
What random acts of kindness have you done or had done for you today?
Saint John Bosco: John Bosco had many dreams as a young man. In one dream, John was cursed by a crowd of homeless children, and he fought back against them. Jesus appeared in the dream and told John to win his battle with kindness instead of fighting. The dream children changed to wild animals, and Jesus asked John to trust that if he followed what he had said, the wild animals would turn into gentle lambs. Changed by the dream, John learned to juggle and perform magic tricks. He used these performances to get the attention of street children, who did not trust easily because of being abandoned. John’s life’s work was to show these children that God cared about them.
GivesMeHope.com: “When I was in seventh grade, all of my supposed friends blew off my birthday party when they had said they would come. Only one person showed up. My older sister had some of her guy friends over, and when they saw how sad I was, they canceled their plans to hang out with me on my birthday. Teenage boys who care about their friend’s little sister give me hope.”
FAITHFULNESS
loyalty in your commitments to God & to others
Who in your life do you want to be faithful to?
Saint Thomas More: Thomas was a scholar, lawyer, and family man. His wisdom and knowledge helped him become Lord Chancellor of England – second in power only to the king. Thomas disagreed with King Henry’s plan to divorce his wife, who had only borne him a daughter, and marry another woman. Because the Pope would not approve the divorce, Henry then declared himself the head of the Church of England. Thomas refused to swear an oath recognizing the change and resigned as chancellor. Thomas More was imprisoned and beheaded for refusing to put the king’s will before God’s.
GivesMeHope.com: “I am a 25-year-old single mother to my wonderful six-year-old son. One day my son wanted M&Ms. I told him Mommy couldn’t afford them, to which a lady started saying my son deserved better. My son stood up and said, ‘My mommy is the best mommy. As long as I’ve got her I don’t need a Daddy, or even M&Ms.’ My son gives me hope.”
GENEROSITY
willingness to give, even at a cost to your own needs or wants
What do you think motivates us to be generous to others?
Saint Nicholas of Myra: Nicholas was a bishop in what is now the country of Turkey. He knew a family with three daughters, who were so poor they were going to sell the daughters in order to buy food. To save the girls from this fate, one night Nicholas crept to their house and threw three bags of gold through the open window. Saint Nicholas is the model for Santa Claus because of these generous gifts left secretly in the night.
GivesMeHope.com: “Yesterday I was downtown shopping and saw a skinny homeless man. He asked me to buy him a bag of chips. I bought him two slices of pizza and two waters and told him he could save the other for dinner. He thanked me and I went into a store. When I came out, I saw he had shared it with a homeless woman. Selflessness in any situation gives me hope.”
Prayer Parts
Choose how to pray for one of the Fruits of the Spirit, maybe using some of these parts and filling in what you want God to do to help you grow in this Fruit of the Spirit.
“YOU” | “WHO” | “DO” | “THROUGH” |
Lord of all creation, | who made us and all that we love, | ____________________ | We ask this through Jesus our Lord and Savior. Amen. |
Heavenly Father, | who watches over us each day, | ____________________ | We pray and ask your mercy in Jesus’ name. Amen. |
Jesus our brother, | who loves us and feeds us like a Good Shepherd, | ____________________ | Through Christ our Lord. Amen. |
Holy Spirit, | who is with us always and in every difficulty, | ____________________ | In the name of Jesus. Amen. |
etc. | etc. | etc. | etc. Amen. |